This episode would not be complete without listening to these episodes as well:



• What Wives Need to Know About Their Husband's Sex Drives And What Men Need to Know About Themselves (https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/148-what-wives-need-to-know-about-husbands-sex-drive-and-what-men-need-to-understand-about-themselves/)


• Sex-quel Follow-Up Episode with Rachel Denning (https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/150-the-sex-quel-follow-up-sex-episode-with-rachel-denning/)


• ⁠Husbands, How to ACTUALLY Listen to Your Wives (And Why She Needs It)⁠ (https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/215-a-message-to-husbands-how-to-actually-listen-to-your-wife/)


• Masturbation & Cheap Sexual Acts are a Poor Substitute for Real Connection (https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/198-masturbation-cheap-sexual-acts-are-a-poor-substitute-for-real-connection-a-message-for-teens-and-spouses/) -- A Message for Teens & Spouses

This episode was in response to a question we received:

I just listened to one of your trainings and you guys mention having sex 4-7 times a week. If there is a podcast or a training on this somewhere please direct me to it.

I’m a morning person and my husband is a night owl. I wake up at 4 and go to bed at 9 he wakes up at 8 and goes to bed at midnight. I have 6 kids and homeschool and do my business on the side.

How do you create time to do it that many times? 🙃 I feel like it takes too much time. I’m working on upgrading my thoughts about time with him. But this is where I’m at right now.

And I don’t know where to add it into my schedule and honestly, I’m in pain all day long after I do it. 😬

How do you do it so much and how do you make it a part of your schedule and life?

Ultimately it comes down to STRATEGY. Get all the nitty-gritty details in this episode. 😁

Get our recommend books on marriage and sex here:



• Greg's Booklist (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist)


• Rachel's List for Well-Read Moms (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/ambitious-well-read-mom-booklist)